How To Go From Conflict To Closeness, Even If Your Spouse Isn't On Board Yet

You've Felt The Distance and Pain.

Now Let's Open the Door

to Reconciliation.

Renew your heart. reboot your mind. restore your soul. reconnect with your spouse.

You love your spouse, but...

Lately, instead of sharing hopes, dreams, and feelings,

you only talk logistics, the calendar, and the chore list.

When you look at each other, you wonder,

"What happened to us?"

You feel lonely because of the distance that's growing.

You're exhausted from the same arguments

that never get resolved.

Frustrated by the distance that keeps growing between you.

Resentful of unmet needs you've stopped even asking for.

Not fully trusting each other with your true heart.

And quietly grieving the marriage you thought you'd have.

You're not just disconnected from your spouse.

You're disconnected from the hope that

things can actually change.

You don't want a divorce.

You've tried everything.

(At least, everything you've known.)

Worse, your spouse might have said,

"I love you, but I'm not in love with you."

You don't know what else to do.

How Married Christians Can

Release Resentment, Resolve Conflict, and Rebuild Connection

This Is For Couples Who Want to Heal Together.

It's Also For One Spouse Who Wants To Stand For The Marriage.

He Or She Is Courageous Enough To Go First

To Heal, Grow, & Change,

And Open The Door To Reconciliation

Is Your Marriage Struggling? You and your spouse have grown apart. built up resentment. poor communication. unresolved conflict.

Or Your spouse has pulled away. shut down.

there's no more affection or intimacy.

or maybe your spouse just said he or she isn't happy anymore and Your Spouse said, "I'm done..."

You're not alone — but you can't heal this way.

We are

Scott and Rachel Lawry.

We were so happy in our marriage, until a lot of life happened.

It took a toll on us, and we disconnected for years.

I wanted more from the marriage; he wanted peace.

I would escalate things; he would shut down.

I was angry, resentful, and bitter.

He was anxious, depressed, and hopeless.

The worst part? We felt like frauds because we knew the right answers but just couldn't make it work in our marriage.

After trying everything, including retreats, counseling, and books, nothing worked until we discovered a secret....

You can't fix your marriage when your heart is in the wrong place...

SOUND FAMILIAR?

You recognize what's broken,

but you don't know

how to fix it.

we hear you.

we've been there, too.

You're Gone to Therapy.

You've Tried Counseling.

You've done the Retreats.

You've Read the books.

You've Met With Your Pastor.

But if you're honest, things aren't changing fast enough,

you don't know what to do, and you need another way.

Why Traditional Counseling Or Therapy May Not Have Worked:

Focuses on symptoms, not the heart issues driving them
Teaches communication skills without addressing sin and selfishness
Looks to psychology over the Word of God
Leaves God and His good design for marriage out of the process entirely
The system is broken, and if it works at all, it's often too slow, taking months or years to heal a marriage

Why Retreats Haven't Worked:

No long-term accountability built in
It takes 63 days to create new habits. A weekend away or even a week-long intensive isn't enough time to create new habits=
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Why Books Alone Haven't Fixed It:

Easy to focus on what your spouse needs to do differently, harder to focus on what you can do differently
"The inside of the jar can't read the outside of the label." We can't see what we're in the middle of.
Often books can become weapons. "Here. YOU need to read this." k
We can know what to do but not want to do it. You probably need help uncovering the mindset holding you back. uncovering the

Why Your Pastor Wasn't Enough

He is equipped to point you to Scripture, but not always equipped to address trauma, broken trust, and deeply rooted conflict patterns
He carries the weight of an entire congregation, leaving little time for the depth your marriage needs
Pastors often refer couples out after just one or two sessions because he knows his limits
His own marriage may be quietly struggling under the weight of ministry demands

We're Scott & Rachel Lawry,

Co-Founders of

Turnaround Marriage.

We've shown over 700 married Christians how to rebuild connection, trust, and intimacy, starting with having a change of heart.

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"Miriam left and there was no communication. I wasn't speaking her language and she definitely wasn't speaking mine. Scott showed me how to work on me and I did my part and God did his. Miriam said I had changed so much. It's so beautiful now."

Bert & Miriam

Married 37 yrs

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"We were ships passing in the night, living like roommates. The conflicts escalated because it touched on deep nerves. But within 2-3 weeks we felt the deep connection and intimacy return! Now, we’ve never been this connected in our entire marriage!"

John & Cindy

Married 17 yrs

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"Before [Turnaround Marriage], I was calloused and done, and now we are speaking the same language. We are communicating differently. We are all in a really good place now. Every marriage program should be this drenched in the Gospel."

Elyse & Ryan

Married 16 yrs

the 5 Pillars of turnaround marriage:

Think of your marriage like a garden.

Right now it might feel overgrown, neglected,

or like nothing good is growing no matter how hard you try.

These five pillars are how we help you till the ground, pull the weeds,

understand what you're actually growing, feed it well, and watch it bear fruit again.

Transform the Heart

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Renew the Mind

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Rebuild, Renew, & Restore ✨

"Out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks."

Matthew 12:34

You can't grow something new on ground that's still hard and full of rocks.

So we start with the heart. We show you how to invite God to soften & heal it.

You learn to deal with the pride, the resentment, the years of hurt you've been quietly stacking up, and releasing what you no longer want to carry.

You learn to stop stuffing your feelings, to move through big emotions easily, then learn how to cultivate real peace, hope, and gratitude again.

"Be transformed by the renewing of your mind."

Romans 12:2

Time to pull the weeds.

We find the thoughts that have taken root and choked out everything good, the ones that feel completely true but have kept you stuck in the same cycles for years.

We show you how to spot those thoughts, pull them out at the root, and replace them with what's true.

Change what you think, and you change how you show up.

"He created them male and female."

Genesis 1:27

Not every plant grows the same way.

God made you both fearfully, yet remarkably different as husband and wife.

Different needs, different wiring, different ways of giving and receiving love. Those differences were designed to fit you two together.

Once you see how God uniquely wired each of you and what you've been needing all along, deep understanding can grow.

"Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up..." Eph. 4:29

Growing something new in marriage requires nourishment.

You'll learn to communicate with love, respect, and understanding - the words, the tone, body language, and heart behind it.

Most try to fix this first, but if you're hurting, believing lies, or not understanding each other, communication isn't effective.

Now that there's deep understanding, the words you speak can build each other up instead of tear each other down.

"And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." Galatians 6:9

This is where you finally see fruit.

We rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection by strengthening your spiritual connection, creating emotional safety, and cultivating affection with new honesty, authenticity, and courage.

You'll walk through forgiveness, take ownership of your part, and step into who you actually are in Christ. Your marriage will heal.

INTRODUCING THE TURNAROUND MARRIAGE

SELF-GUIDED EXPERIENCE

A 9-Week Self-Guided Program (with support when you need it) that you can begin today.

Imagine your heart finally free of the resentment you've been carrying.

Your mind renewed, no longer trapped in the same lies about your marriage.

You and your spouse finally understanding each other instead of talking past each other.

Conflict resolved with grace instead of defensiveness.

Trust and intimacy rebuilt, one honest step at a time.

The door to reconciliation opening, because you were courageous enough to go first.

It's what the 5 Pillars of Turnaround Marriage have helped over 700 married Christians do,

and it's the same foundation behind our Signature Program.

Now it's a step-by-step system you can walk through

at home, on your own time, with support along the way.

Open the first lesson today, and start walking toward reconciliation.

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EVERYTHING YOU GET INSIDE THE TURNAROUND MARRIAGE SELF-GUIDED EXPERIENCE

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9-Week In-Depth Modules and Trainings to Heal Your Marriage

The Exact Step-By-Step System That Scott And Rachel Developed For Married Christians Who Had Become Distant, Disconnected, And Discouraged So They Can Heal Quickly. These Deep-Dive Trainings Will Show You Exactly What To Do In What Order To Break Old Patterns And Develop New Ones That Last. This System Has Helped More Than 700 Married Christians To Date. The Trainings Show You How To Implement The 5 Pillars Of Turnaround Marriage Into Your Marriage So You Can Grow As A Husband Or Wife And Enjoy Connection, Intimacy, And Trust In Your Marriage Again. On-Demand Access At Your Convenience, And Lifetime Access.

Valued at $7,999

Turnaround Marriage App

You'll Be Able To Access The Trainings And Community At Your Convenience Through Our Turnaround Marriage App So You Can Grow In Your Marriage When You're On The Go. Convenient, Powerful, And Life-Changing.

Valued at $100

Separate Men's and Ladies' Q&A, Mentoring, & Live Coaching Calls

Every First Wednesday Of The Month At 12pm EST, We Host Separate Q&A Sessions For Husbands And Wives, Where You Can Ask Questions That Are Difficult To Ask In The Presence Of The Opposite Sex. Scott Hosts A Men's Only Q&A Session, To Be Iron Sharpening Iron With The Husbands, And Rachel Hosts A Ladies' Only Q&A Session, To Encourage And Equip The Wives. You Will Have Access To Three Of These Monthly Calls.

Valued at $750

Help Desk Support M-F for 9 Weeks

You Are Never Stuck Waiting Until Your Next Call To Get Help. Anytime Something Comes Up, You Can Send It Straight To The Help Desk And Scott And Rachel Will Respond Within 24 Hours During The Business Week, With A Compassionate And Personalized Coaching Audio Or Video Message To Get You Unstuck And Moving Forward Again Quickly. This Is A Key Way We Are Able To Help Couples Make Rapid Progress.

Valued at $4,499

live Break the cycle workshop

Get a free ticket to our live, interactive break the cycle workshop: How to Stay Calm, Grounded, and Stop the Fight–Shutdown Pattern (Even If Your Spouse Doesn’t Change). we cover The exact in-the-moment reset tool to stay grounded before you get emotionally flooded | how to Interrupt the fight–shutdown cycle in real time, even if your spouse won't change | The hidden reason your conversations escalate (it's not what you think) | How to respond instead of react (even when triggered) | Why counseling, books, retreats, and talking with your pastor has FAILED to create lasting change | How to shift your emotional state in minutes - not hours or days - so repair can happen quickly. we host these live every other month, typically the 3rd or 4th thursday of the month at 8pm EST.

Valued at $199

live fearfully and wonderfully made workshop

Get a free ticket to our live, interactive fearfully and wonderfully made workshop where we dive deep on many of the differences between husbands and wives, from how we are wired, our needs, our tendencies, our weaknesses, the Effects of the fall, to name a few. we help you not only understand yourself, but also your spouse, so that understanding and empathy can grow. You'll walk away With new insight and actionable steps to Rebuild connection. we host these live every other month, typically the 3rd or 4th thursday of the month at 8pm EST.

Valued at $199

christian couple's communication toolkit

a handy and practical guide to understanding differences between how husbands and wives communicate, 4-part apology, mathew 18 guidelines for unrepentant sin, forgiveness Blueprint, and reconciliation roadmap.

Valued at $119

60-Day Marriage prayer guide

by Turnaround marriage

a 60-day prayer guide and devotional to help guide you as you pray for your spouse, your marriage, and for restoration and reconciliation.

Valued at $30

Total Value: $13,895

One-time Payment of

Just $1,997

A Transformed Heart & Marriage?

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WHO THIS IS FOR, AND WHO IT'S NOT FOR:

Who Should Join

This is for you if:

You are a married christian hurting but wanting reconciliation
You want a healthy marriage one day, and you see gaps in your current relationship
You’re done blaming and ready to take ownership of your side.
You’re wanting to prioritize god > marriage > children > Yourself.
You want a biblical and effective roadmap toward reconciliation.
You are willing to go first, knowing you'd regret it if you didn't
You're tired of the frustrating patterns and want a healthy marriage
you love the lord, your spouse, and your family
You're struggling or separated, but want to fight honorably for your marriage
you're ready to be coachable and committed and have a desire to grow, heal, and change

Who Should Not Join

This is nOT for Those in abusive relationships (physically or sexually).
This is nOT for individuals unwilling to be coachable or make lasting changes.
This is NOT for those who are waiting for their spouse to change first
This is NOT for Those with severe untreated mental illness.

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"My wife told me she was done with our marriage a few weeks ago. It’s been quite a transformation and I’ve been showing up for our marriage differently. We’ve had quite a turnaround in just 8 weeks!”

Mark

Married 41 yrs

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"Turnaround Marriage process was exactly what I needed to be involved in to save my marriage of 25 years. We had become so complacent over the last few years... I was desperate for a solution. I looked far and wide for something that would give me hope, and failed before I found these two, but this course was my saving grace. My husband and I are BOTH comfortably back in a loving, caring and committed relationship. God is very present in our lives and for that I am truly thankful."

Sarah

Married 25 yrs

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"Before Turnaround Marriage, I truly had no hope. My wife announced she wanted to split up and end the marriage. I was blaming, had anger, frustration, and resentment in me. I didn't know what to do. But I felt like God put this Turnaround Marriage opportunity into my lap. It's a night and day difference. Before, I truly saw no hope, and now I see lots of changes. By 3-4 weeks in, I felt like a different person. I had to forgive my wife and my kids, but even more importantly I realized the actions I had done hurt them. Now, I'm calmer, kinder, and I am showing up as a totally different person. My marriage has been restored."

Roger

Married 20 yrs

DON'T WAIT...

Fear usually stops people from making a decision that now is the time to contend for your marriage. Every marriage has a tipping point. Don't let fear stop you from courageously contending for your marriage.