Whether you have drifted apart in your marriage, you lack the physical, emotional, or sexual intimacy you used to have, or you have fallen into deep ruts of conflict, negativity, and disconnection, a complete TURNAROUND in your marriage is not only POSSIBLE but could be achieved QUICKER than you ever thought possible, even if your spouse isn't on board, yet.
What we do is very different from everything else out there because we have a laser focus on getting you from where you are stuck to the dream marriage you've been praying for. We help you eliminate everything that is standing between you and your dream, and help you show up as the best version of yourselves. We address the WHOLE person, and the MARRIAGE at the same time. We show our clients how to break out of ruts of negative thinking and spiraling, how to stop stuffing their feelings (and stop letting their feelings explode) and how to use their body, mind, heart, and soul to feel differently, think differently, and show up differently. We equip them with the tools so that they don't have to sweep conflict under the rug any longer, nor do they need to have escalating arguments, nor do they need to resort to shutting down, but instead of rehashing the past, they can work through their differences with calm, curiosity, and empathy and finally heal. The predominant belief is that marriages take years to fix. We have destroyed that thinking with what we do. We help both you and your marriage get healthy quickly - in body, heart, mind, and soul.
Scott and Rachel Lawry are Christian Transformational Marriage Coaches that help struggling and on-the-brink-of-divorce Christian couples to restore their marriages and find the healing and help for which they've been desperately praying. Scott and Rachel guide couples to getting breakthroughs in communication and intimacy, restoring passion and fun, and beginning to dream again.
Scott and Rachel help committed Christian couples finally end cycles of conflict and disconnection, and reclaim the love, connection, and playfulness they once had. They are able to help honorable, hard-working people who have had successes in other parts of their lives, but their marriage has struggled.
This is NOT for those with severe mental illness, unrepentant, ongoing physical abuse or violence, untreated substance abuse, those unwilling to change, those looking for free advice or want to DIY, those only wanting to complain, blame, or shame their spouse.
Scott and his bride Rachel understand the pain of a struggling marriage and have experienced their own breakthrough, and they have a unique approach as they work together with couples. They have been passionately serving Christian couples and families for almost 30 years.
On this complimentary call, we will help you get clarity on what's not working in your marriage and help you dream again about what your marriage could be. We will show you what powerful next step you need to take to bridge the gap from where you are to where you want to go in your marriage, and see if you are a good fit to work with us.
STORIES OF HOPE
"I have been in a "funk" many years, especially the last 2. I don't know if it was depression or sadness, I just couldn't get my act together. This program almost right away helped me change my thought process. It has been magical. My marriage has also been saved. The support and tools we have been given have also helped get us "unstuck". We are REALLY enjoying each other again and having FUN!!!! I am most thankful for us developing a relationship with God...together." -Christine (KS - Married 14 years)
"Y’all made a huge turnaround difference in our marriage! This has helped not only our marriage, but helped us as individuals. It has helped me tremendously ...and we are getting POURED into instead of just complaining to someone! And the material is so good! A few weeks ago, I called you in a desperate place & NOW we are LEAPS AND BOUNDS ahead of where we were!" -Tamra (GA - Married 32 years)
"I can't believe it! In just 4 weeks, I have never felt this close to my wife in our 29 years of marriage!" -James (AL - Married 29 years)
"We went from belligerent to blessed! We were on the brink of divorce, even though that's not what we wanted. We were just hurting every day and didn't know how long we could keep doing that. We noticed a difference immediately, because of the tools you gave us and because we were committed to doing the work. Our communication now is peaceful and fun! If you're feeling hopeless, Turnaround Marriage will give you hope. The others in the program, the love you will receive, the atmosphere where they are truly for your marriage, it will give you such hope. You're worth the investment. You will benefit so much, and you won't walk away empty-handed." -Chris and Nethra (MO - Married 12 years)
"Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you guys for what you're doing it is making all the difference!" -Kelly (SC - Married 38 years)
"This program is so uniquely structured I really feel like it gives you the best results over traditional counseling. Not only is it biblically sound, but it also pushes you back towards Christ every time and...He is the one who designed marriage! We have been so tremendously blessed and feel like finding Turnaround Marriage was actually God at work in our lives and in our marriage!" -Elise (CO - Married 16 years)
“Before Turnaround Marriage, even though we loved each deeply, we were stuck in patterns that brought us to end of our rope. We struggled with forgiveness, trust, communication, and understanding each other. We spent lots of time and money seeking help from other sources, but nothing helped. Fights would last for days and we would talk about divorce, but we both knew that was no more an option than being happily married. We found TM and met Scott and Rachel, and things began changing rapidly. We began [applying what we were learning] to our marriage and everyday lives and it was literally a miracle in our marriage. I, Lori, watched Chris transform into the spiritual leader in our relationship. The result has been that I finally have the true gospel partner that I never thought I would have. I really believed that I would be alone for the rest of my life, even though I was married. Chris has learned the secret to understanding my heart and it has been a game changer. I have also learned new skills in managing my emotions, but I trust that Chris is a safe place, even if I am having a meltdown. We have learned the amazing powerful of not only being grateful for our blessings but expressing and living in gratitude. It has changed our marriage and our lives. In just a few days we will celebrating our 14th wedding anniversary. We will be celebrating a joyful marriage that is safe and full of hope. If you’re struggling in your marriage, we can honestly tell you Turnaround Marriage with Scott and Rachel was used by God to restore and repair our marriage and we encourage you to take a leap of faith because we know TM will help you too." -Chris and Lori (MI - Married 14 years)
"Scott and Rachel are truly called to this and this has been divinely orchestrated by God. To me the investment we made in Turnaround Marriage, we made in each other, it is absolutely something we would recommend. Trust God in it. Scott and Rachel are humble, they are real, and they are the real deal. They have an eternal place in our hearts. Thank you so much!" -Lauren (PA - Married 14 years)
I'm so thankful for this course, for what I've learned. I would have never understood how to set boundaries without anger if I didn't know who I am, thanks to your help. What I've learned in your course is going to stay with me forever! It's a marking point in my life. I appreciate you guys!" -Rachel (TX - Married 14 years)
"We will anticipate challenges to come, but look to these times to turn us towards each other, to work through together, rather than allowing them to push us into isolation and separation. Together we are so much stronger against the adversary."
-Becky (TX - Married 21 years)
"I just wanted to say thank you Scott and Rachel for your amazing lessons!! As I go through each one I feel more inner joy and peace and love! As I think back on all the incredible memories and dreams fulfilled I feel grateful and happy for this amazing life that God has given me/us!! Gratitude is key!!!" -Lisa (ID - Married 32 years)
“My husband and I thought about divorce before this, we probably wouldn’t have done it, we would have just suffered together forever, which is no way to live. But we’ve had a miracle happen between us! I give my husband credit! He is doing things that I never thought he would do. When we go somewhere now, it doesn’t feel like so much stress. It’s much calmer now. It’s awesome! I’m almost 69 and now I’m just looking forward to enjoying the rest of our lives together now!” -Terri (VA - Married 32 years)
"I have a more positive outlook realizing every thing God has put in my path has a purpose for sanctification. I have a more positive outlook towards my wife. Our minds are different but we are equal." -David (OR - Married 45 years)
"Turnaround Marriage has given me more hope than I expected. I joined by myself and learned so much about the faulty thoughts and messages I was believing and in turn, acting on. My knowledge of the Bible has increased and how it relates to marriage. I have become more stable with my emotions and the need to control everything. I no longer lean so hard on my husband to meet my needs and focus more on how I can show up as my best self and fix my eyes on Jesus. It has been empowering and I have noticed a positive change in the impact I have in my career as well and I feel more equipped with tools, guidance, support and direction." -Tracie (MN - Married 10 years)
"Before Turnaround Marriage, my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I used to struggle with and felt absence, loss, being untouched, unloved, unheard and unseen. I also struggled with resentment that had built up over many years toward my husband because of these feelings. I was hungry for a real change in my marriage, and I started to see results in the first couple of weeks. I have noticed that my husband has noticed changes in me. He is closer to me emotionally, spiritually and in physical space proximity wise. He is softer and approaches me with a different energy than he has in the last few years. He and I am happier than we have ever been!" -Sarah (TX - Married 19 years)
"I don't feel hopeless in our relationship anymore. We actually are enjoying our time together instead of dreading it. I am being intentional at having an attitude of gratitude towards God and my husband. When we start to argue, I take a step back and tone my voice down, think what else could be true, and am quicker to apologize. Regarding our sex life, I am being more sensitive to his needs and I feel freer to talk about our intimacy more. I am praying for my husband more regularly. I am incorporating music and humor into our lives. We have been laughing together again. We have been making our hugs and kisses longer and more meaningful. Our home is definitely happier. Thank you for the time and effort you put into preparation and meeting with us and praying for us." -Darlene (PA - Married 32 years)
"We are seeing the Lord bless us with making the investment in our marriage. We are starting to see that as far as my work goes – the paychecks have been bigger. God is blessing us for making that investment in our marriage. I’m celebrating that we are learning to break out of the rat trap of a negative mindset and putting these tools to use.” -Benny (TX - Married 19 years)
"I have worked on thanking my husband for everything he does, no matter how little, and I have noticed that this seems to empower him to do more and he is more energized and motivated to work together."
-Michelle (TN - Married 5 years)
"Turnaround Marriage is the real deal. And, quite possibly THE most effective place for Christians to get practical, effective help for a struggling marriage. You will NOT find more wisdom, commitment, compassion or investment than you'll find here. Scott & Rachel are an amazing team, powerfully gifted and clearly used by God. They don't just offer timeless, well researched strategies (though you'll get those too!), but authentic, battle-tested first-hand experience. They've taken the struggles they've personally walked through & are pouring their lives into helping others. They will come alongside you, rally around you, pray for you, & contend for your marriage WITH you. They hold out a needed life preserver to those drowning in the pain of brokenness, betrayal, disillusionment & disconnection. Truly the best of the best. What ARE you waiting for?" -Lisa (CO - Married 27 years)
"It feels like all of my prayers are being answered!" -Karen (OR - Married 45 years)
"My wife told me she was done with our marriage a few weeks ago. It’s been quite a transformation and I’ve been showing up for our marriage differently. We’ve had quite a turnaround in just 8 weeks!” -Mark (MN - Married 41 years)
"The information multiplied my peace in knowing the Lord. I know that my sister marveled at me recently as I exuded contentment and joy. When Scott asked why I dared to speak against the daughter of the King, that was profound! Then the lessons of being worthy helped to see what God had to say. Incredible. I knew them, but I had failed to continuously enjoy them. Stan and I have more time together. The course got us first to reestablish our commitment to one another. We had time for business, to go out on dates, to talk. It helped me to recall that I married a great guy. It helped us to understand each other. It helped us to become vulnerable to each other. It helped to bring us closer to one another. Even though our daughter seems vexed that she isn't his only occupation; the change may be helping her security level. Also, In a way, she got her mother back!" -Diana (MN - Married 35 years)
"[Turnaround Marriage] has saved my marriage and has brought Sarah and I close to each other and closer to God. Please don’t suffer; get help. I wish I had been open to it sooner. Marriage is a wonderful gift from God and this program gives you tools and helps have the marriage God wants for you."
-Jon (NY - Married 13 years)
"It feels so good to have conflict but to address it in a healthy way. There has been nothing like Turnaround Marriage that has helped us in our marriage before. We've tried counseling and conferences and so many things and this has been the first thing that has really helped. Something about this approach spoke to us."
-Paola (WA - Married 16 years)
"[Turnaround Marriage has helped me] understand my wife and learn to love her again." -Stan (MN - Married 35 years)
"We took a leap and hired a marriage coach. It's been worth every penny! Scott and Rachel helped us to take our marriage to the next level and truly break old habits that were not serving us well. We didn't want a mediocre marriage...we wanted to thrive! And with the help of these amazing God-fearing coaches, we have seen a truly healthy and beautiful marriage grow in a very short time." -Megan (MI - Married 9 years)
"Thank you Rachel! I truly know it was not a coincidence that I found you guys on Facebook! Your program has gotten us unstuck and given us the tools to move forward!" -Bonnie (AZ - Married 34 years)
"We are definitely working more as a team- approaching life together and looking for ways to help each other instead of looking for ways that the other may be going against us." -Karli (PA - Married 9 years)
"Thank you!!! You are helping us out so much in finding who we truly are again! I appreciate you taking time to help me with the challenge I was having...I truly think your advice helped stopped the cycle day-to-day continuing spiral. You have given us so much hope and inspiration! Grateful for you!" -Julie (AL - Married 33 years)
"I am grateful to God first of all for continuing to work in my husband's heart, for him to be open to the Holy Spirit to teach him, for him investing in Turnaround Marriage after I had left, and to both of you [Scott and Rachel] for allowing God to turn your mess into a message to help couples like my husband and I to have a turned around marriage!
Before Turnaround Marriage, I felt like life was being sucked out of me in my marriage. Now, it's way different. I can't wait to have closeness with my husband. He is kind. He cares about my physical health. My transformed husband is concerned if I'm doing too much. I feel loved and cared for, the first time like this in our marriage. I'm literally in tears because of the wonderful man that I had but couldn't see before! It's a 180 degree turnaround for sure! We pray together most nights before we go to sleep. We cuddle in bed. I love it! We communicate like never before. When I get triggered, I have tools from Turnaround Marriage to get out of it and I feel safer and more resilient. God has done a marvelous work in our lives. We are both better people for going through the Turnaround Marriage work and coaching. I left because I believe God wanted me to get out of the way. It was difficult to come back because of the loss of hope for what I had lived with all those years. With God's help and your coaching help, I was able to transition back into what is now a beautiful God-honoring relationship. It’s an amazing thought to realize how good I have it in my marriage now! I tell my husband he has changed so much and he says I have changed. It's so beautiful now. There is peace and joy in our marriage. Yes, my joy comes from Jesus ultimately and I get to choose how much of His joy I want, but wow is it nice to have it in a human relationship, too!" -Miriam (IL - Married 37 years)
"[Turnaround Marriage] has taught me importance of patience as we continue to work through the steps - communication and importance of giving grace during the difficult times." -Bryan (TX - Married 21 years)
“This is a fantastic organization and group! The amount of support and transformation that we get from this program is unbelievable." -Robert (KS - Married 28 years)
"I wasn't feeling needed and that created problems. We weren't practicing grace with each other. We were in a gridlock. I was detached, checked out, and disconnected. Right away, though I had a sense of hope. Now, we have healing, grace, and have much more connection and open hearts toward each other." -Matthew (AL - Married 33 years)
"Before [Turnaround Marriage], I was calloused and done, and now we are speaking the same language. We are communicating differently. We've seen what it's like when it was bad, and now we see what it's like when it's good. Our family dynamic was really suffering we didn't realize it until 3 months later, and now it's really different. We are all happy, and no one is taking on each other's ugliness because we are all in a really good place." -Elise (CO - Married 16 years)
"I am celebrating Turnaround Marriage! It has made a big difference in just 2 weeks! It has given us new paths, new ways of thinking, and new tools. We had hit THE roadblock, but this has opened it back up for us! Thank you!" -Beth (SC - Married 38 years)
“It’s amazing because we have been facing such challenges together. We were able to talk about it and we are now together in the challenges. It just feels different! People can see there’s a difference in us! Two different couples have asked me what’s different about us." -Valerie (MO - Married 40 years)
"I love this program! Scott and Rachel really show how God can transform you and your marriage to see life as God intends. So thankful God lead me to this program!" -Tricia (NC - Married 23 years)
"[Turnaround Marriage] has helped us to rebuild a connection with one another, to fight for our marriage together, and to look forward to the future with hope. We have grown in: taking ownership for our shortcomings, conflict resolution, practicing gratitude/grace/forgiveness, showing love/respect, building a new mindset, being more emotionally stable, encouraging/building each other up communicating in more respectful ways, serving and supporting each other, looking for the good in one another, recognizing unhealthy patterns and turning them around, calling out our/spouse’s better self, understanding the importance of having fun together. I love the way this program incorporates Biblical principles with science and practical tools- and it is lead by an amazing husband and wife team! The love for what y’all do and for your clients shines through every interaction we have had. Your loving support has been so encouraging and we are so grateful to have y’all as our mentors!" -Tina (TX - Married 19 years)
"You helped us focus on the BEST is yet to come!' -Dan (MN - Married 25 years)
"The toughest part of our marriage was feeling misunderstood, unappreciated, and my love was not reciprocated. We basically went to our separate corners every day. But with [Turnaround Marriage], things started changing in the very beginning. Because of the tools you provide, and because of our dedication to do it together, the change happened immediately. We felt a wooing from God, we loved the accountability. You are worth the investment!" -Chris & Nethra (MO - Married 12 years)
"I would like to say that the Turnaround Marriage process was exactly what I needed to be involved in to save my marriage of 25 years. We had become so complacent over the last few years with Covid, a new home schooling routine, newly-aged teenagers, stressful jobs, the death of my oldest brother, etc. Life was complicated and too much!! I am a fixer in every way, but I just couldn’t fix all of that stuff at one time!! Who could?! I thought I could!! My biggest mistake is in thinking and not feeling!!
I reached out to my priest who suggested that we go to traditional marriage counseling, because my husband recently lost his faith in God, and I wouldn’t want him to be pushed away more from a religious solution to heal this. We have been going consistently since August, but it just wasn’t doing for me what I needed, God back in my life as a constant force. I needed a path back to Him to help me heal myself and my marriage. I had lost so much of me, my faith and my marriage at that point, and through the challenges I needed a push. Rachel and Scott gave that strength back to me with their loving and spiritual support.
I have been practicing these skills for the last nine weeks and they are working. I dove in head-first and gobbled up all of the lessons, learning as I went. I was desperate for a solution. I looked far and wide for something that would give me hope, and failed before I found these two, but this course was my saving grace.
After all of the work I have done, I can now officially announce that my husband and I are BOTH comfortably back in a loving, caring and committed relationship. God is very present in our lives and for that I am truly thankful. God is the reason!! -Sarah (TX - Married 25 years)
"I'm celebrating publicly so God will get his glory!!! From how my husband found out about [Turnaround Marriage] to God’s provision to sign us up to the grace of Jesus to carry us all the way to the end. Looks like a winning team to me and victory is ours! Please look into trained, professional, Christian marriage coaches Scott & Rachel Lawry Turn Around Marriage Program!!! Thank you both for your amazing unique program and hearts to walk people through God's biblical institution of marriage. Trust that I am praying for you two as yall continue to do the work of the Lord. Love you both!" -Nethra (MO - Married 12 years)
"The difficulties of marriage shouldn't be taboo to talk about. It's tough to be 'one' with someone. It's tough to die to your selfishness. But man oh man, marriage can be so beautiful when you have the right mindset, tools, and God. THANK YOU Turnaround Marriage!" -Megan (MI - Married 9 years)
"I would highly recommend Turnaround Marriage because it has dramatically changed my life. First off their encouragement and coaching have set me free from a very poor self identity. My relationship with the Godhead has been rekindled. This training is the best discipleship training we have ever had. It is also the best intense marriage growth training Barb and I have been involved with. Scott and Rachel really care and have spoken into our lives. Their material is life changing, and because my life has turned around Barb has blossomed into a vibrant flower. Really awesome to behold. Besides all of that I love myself again so now I can love Barb because I love me." -Charlie (TN - Married 43 years)
"What you both do as a couple is meaningful. And for every sincere and humble heart who crosses your path, there is no way, they would not find great and lasting change!" -Emi (MD - Married 5 years)
"This experience has allowed my husband and I to feel safe expressing ourselves to one another again and to see that our motivations are rooted in love. I have the power to change my relationship and life by learning more about myself and changing my outlook and behaviors to be more positive and loving." -Felicia (AL - Married 29 years)
"We can talk about the past without getting angry or bickering about trivial things.. I think my positivity has changed even though there is still a lot of pressure and stress with everything in our lives." -Andy (WI - Married 28 years)
"[Working with Scott and Rachel] has helped me to alleviate my fears and negativity that were running my life/ ruining my life and replaced those feelings with hope and gratitude and a renewed sense of purpose in my life and in my marriage. It has put us back to being on the same team with Jesus leading us and showing us a better way." -Jim (KS - Married 14 years)
"I needed to hear and read how to take care of my husband and my marriage. Implementing what I can, even as one person working on the marriage, has given me a fresh start and it can only serve to make me and my marriage better than ever." -Michelle (NC - Married 16 years)
"What you both do as a couple is meaningful. And for every sincere and humble heart who crosses your path, there is NO WAY, they would not find great and lasting and change!"
-Amanda (FL - Married 6 years)
"I was at my breaking point. I was ready to throw in the towel. I was definitely skeptical...when you can't figure out what's not working and you've tried all these other programs, whether it's counseling or advice from others...the other stuff was just taking too long. But by the 3rd week I started noticing a difference, and now it's leaps and bounds from turbulence to triumph!" -Josh (PA - Married 14 years)
"It really stuck out to me when he talked about how my response to my wife sharing has a direct affect on how she feels she is heard. I see this time & time again. I DON'T need to fix things, but my wife needs to know she is loved through whatever she is sharing/dealing with." -Sean (MD - Married 9 years)
"I did the work on my own, and it would have been worth the investment just because of the person I became. But I also saved my marriage!"
-Michelle (NC - Married 16 years)
"It's hard to change and it's hard to break old habits, but I am getting there. And yes she notices, the other day... I told her I had listened to it and elaborated on the points that I felt applied to me and us, her eyes lit up and she said she was so excited that I had took the time to not only to listen to what she had asked but was willing to discuss it and try to grow from it." -Tim (GA - Married 33 years)
"I could have never stepped into who God created me to be without the help of you and Scott Lawry's coaching. I mean that with everything in me. You made me realize the beautiful, wonderful creation God made me to be even if I am alone. Love you guys!!!"
-Christa (PA - Married 25 years)
"If you're willing to put in the work and even do some of the modules, it's WORTH EVERY PENNY!" -Christina (WA - Married 9 years)
"I just wanted to reach out to you guys and thank you for your help in my healing process! Even though my marriage wasn’t saved, my life was!! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve used the exercise you taught me about recognizing what I’m feeling, allowing to feel that & then giving it to God! I noticed I haven’t gone to bed crying myself to sleep now & that was almost a nightly thing. So anyways, just wanted to thank you. I finally feel alive and like myself and finding who God wants me to be! So thank you for helping me get there! You are both definitely a blessing in my life! God Bless you BOTH!" -Michelle (OH - Married 25 years)
"This has opened my husband up to be able to share his heart and feel safe to do it. Now he's doing things like opening the door for me, I feel so loved now. We finally have the commitment and consistency as well as a shift in perspective. We've made the tools you've given us a part of our every day lives and it's made all the difference; it's so encouraging. We renewed our vows after 30 years! I can honestly say this works. Scott and Rachel do a phenomenal job, you aren't pushy. I can't say thank you enough!" -Sam and Debbie (FL - Married 32 years)
"My youngest son who has remained open to a relationship with his dad, is here with us for a few weeks. Yesterday he popped over and later he told me that his dad asked him to go get something. My son went to get it and couldn't find it. He went back and asked his dad where it was. My husband said, "I'm sorry, it's over here," and showed him where it was. This is not the reaction my husband would have given to his son for not finding an item. It would have been very different and painful. It made my heart happy to hear that what my husband learned for marriage he is applying elsewhere to his benefit!" -Miriam (IL - Married 37 years)
"I’m thankful that you’re not judgmental, but you’re honest in your coaching and you’re not afraid to tell us what we need to hear. You do it in a way that we can accept it. The fact that you’re both honest and authentic, you’ve had issues so you understand where you’re at and you’re here to help us. I really love the tools you’ve given us. We love you guys and thank you so much. Nothing happens by accident and I’m just thankful we stumbled upon Turnaround Marriage and found you guys!” -Sherry (PA - Married 36 years)
*These results are for testimonial purposes only. These clients showed up 100% coachable, committed, and resourceful, dug in and did the inner work and the tangible work to get the outcome they did. As with anything, you will get out what you put in. There are no guarantees and the success of your marriage is 100% up to you. We require our clients to take total ownership of their marriage, but we provide the tools and support needed.
Our goal is this: Even if hope feels far away, we KNOW that HOPE is right around the corner, and we want to help you find it right away!
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